I am the older man so attracted to “young girls”

I am the older man so attracted to “young girls”. First of all I want to make it clear that at my age, in my forties, girls who are from 18 to their early 20s are “young girls” to me.

I will openly admit that girls under 18 certainly catch my eye as well, but that’s as far as it goes. Just in my eye and in my imagination.

I get quite frustrated by society calling me a pervert or creep. To me those titles belong to men who take every advantage, trick or flatter their way into young women’s beds. Or worse than this, push themselves onto or worse force girls into things they don’t want.

As for me, in my mind and in my heart, I am so taken by the beauty of youth that I simply can’t just ignore it or shrug it off. I love so many things about young women, from their looks, their skin and in some cases lack of experience.

I do not have fantasies as I have read hear from some of the other men, of putting a “naughty girl” over my knee, teaching her a lesson and all of that sort of thing.

My passion is in their pleasure. I have a deep desire to help them explore their pleasure. I have had the experience of showing a young woman pleasures no other man had before. I do enjoy this deeply.

This blog also includes adult women recounting experiences and feelings from their years in puberty. This interest is often what gets people mad at me. Sorry if it offends people, but I get very aroused when I read stories on here that women have written about their first experiences in self exploration. if truth be told, yes, would love to gently and lovingly help a young lady explore her body as puberty changes her body.

I don’t harbor any illusions that girls in their teens or into their 20s would have any interest in me. I do not purse any sort of contact with women of any great age difference to myself. I understand that a young woman in the prime of her youth and beauty would have no interest in a chubby middle age man. But calling me crazy for being so interested in them, frankly is crazy to me. NO, I do NOT think just because I am excited that she should turn to look at me and think.. oh.. well then.. let me just lay down for you. But to expect me not to notice a sexy young woman is just stupid.

And to me, since it is just admiration or even raunchy fantasy, whether she is 21 or 15 makes little difference to me. The lady will have no idea either way that these thoughts ever crossed my mind. So what difference does a few years make when I never touched the girl, or even speak to her. Yet I have to hear crap about it all the time.

I am unapologetically attracted to girls as young as teens and up. I guess the ones who have spoken so harsh to me are thinking of the creepy looking guy they caught staring at them with lust in their eyes. Or worse, the push uncle who “touched” them when they were young. That isn’t me. So I refuse to answer for those men any longer.

Jay and Surprises

My stories between Jay and I will still linger on even though I am not as infatuated as I was before. This is just for the readers and the experience. We’re just friends. I hope he thinks the same way at least. To refresh the minds, he’s a 30 year old barista at a café and i’m 16 year old student in high school, now a junior in my 11th year. On to the story! 

I walked to the café today because I didn’t want to stay at the tennis courts after practice with my coach. He’s really rude to the tennis girls so I didn’t want to converse with him. I just pretended I was walking to my car, but my mom hasn’t come yet. Anyways, I sat outside of Starbucks because i didn’t want to sit inside and not purchase anything. Guess who comes out? It was Jay. I didn’t expect to see him, so he sits right next to the table next to mine and i pretended not to see him even though he didn’t see me at first. Then…

“MINA! :) Is that you?! Wow it’s you! How are you?” He yelled. (I haven’t seen him in a month)

I jumped. “Oh snap. Hey Jay. You really remembered my name.” He scared the hell outta me. He yelled my name. Plus i didn’t expect him to say hi to me first. “I’m great Jay, how are you?”

“I’ll never forget your name! :) I’m good. I scared you, huh? I really should stop scaring people. It’s a bad habit of mine.” He chuckled.

“How’s summer break? Oh wait, i mean your summer.” I asked.

“I know what you mean. It’s going well. Man it was really great seeing you. :)” He looked at me. “So my bike just got a flat tire and i didn’t eat my lunch. So now i have to eat my burrito on my ten minute break.” He smiles at me.

“Well dude that sucks. But at least you’re eating now.” I smiled.

“So are you a senior?” He asked me. Change of subject was quick.

I shook my head. “I’m not. I’m a junior.” Wondered why he would ask me that…

My two guy friends came out of the café and saw me, so they sat next to me. Wyatt and Abe. They were helping out with the girls tennis team since they were on the boys team. We chatted a bit and my convo with Jay ended. I think Jay was eavesdropping on our conversation. Haha. It was just a friendly convo about school though.

Then i left because my ride arrived and Jay left at the same time. Kinda odd, but oh well.

“Bye Mina! I’ll see you around. :)” Jay yelled to me. My friends found it odd that he knew my name. “Bye you tennis guys.”

“Later Jason! :)” I said.
And that was it! Just a friendly chat was all! :)

I Know Things Girls Should Know About Guys

Some Things Girls Should Know About Guys That I Picked Up From All Over
1.Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. they prefer neat and presentable girls.
2.Guys hate other flirts.
3.A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4.When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.
5.Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6.Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
7.When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8.Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.
9.Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.
10.Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
11.When guys want to meet your parents. Let them. …….dont think so
12.Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking! but do not generalize
13.Guys cry!!!
14.Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
15.Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16.Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17.When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.
18.Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?!..uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
19.Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands……yeh rite – Whatever.
20.Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21.When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.
22.When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow”. So true.
23.You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24.Guys hate gays!
25.Guys love their moms.
26.A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
27.A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.
28.You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29.If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
30.Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31.Like Eve, girls are guys weaknesses.
32.Guys are very open about themselves.
33.It’s good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.
34.No guy is bad when he is courting
35.Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
36.Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.
37.Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38.If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice…….very true.
39.A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40.A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
41.Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts. ……..sometimes.
42.Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
43.Guys virtually brag about anything.
44.Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45.Guys think too much.
46.Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.
47.Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!……very true.
48.Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!
49.When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50.It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.
51.You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
52.A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.
53.When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54.Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55.Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed P**** with their girlfriends…..sometimes depends wen they want sumat.
56.When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.
57.When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
58.When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me”……sometimes.
59.Guys don’t really have final decisions.
60.When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61.If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him….very important.
62.If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63.Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64.Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65.Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.
66.A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
67.A guy would waste his time over video games and football, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68.Guys love girls who can cook or bake. ….they love u regardless.
69.Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!……true but only wen the guys are ready 2be settled down.
70.A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71.A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
72.Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
73.Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.
74.Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.
75.Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
76.Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.
77.Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.
78.When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
79.Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80.Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.
81.Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.
82.Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83.Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.
84.When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85.When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86.When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed by you or he’s criticizing you.
87.When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
88.If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89.If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
90.Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91.You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!
92.If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93.When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94.You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.
95.Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96.Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!
97.If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.
98.Guys hate girls who overreact. ……sometimes.
99.Guys love you more than you love them IF they are serious in your relationships.

3 Reasons Behind Older Guys Dating Younger Girls

Nowadays, it is only normal to see older guys dating younger girls. An older guy having a relationship with a younger girl is often called a sugar daddy. There are several older men deciding to date younger women today because these older men realize that their chance of dating people around their age is becoming little and little as time passes. older guys dating younger girls

In short, most of the older guys dating younger girls do so because they are running out of choices. They turn into dating younger girls because there are more of them and they are more willing to date them. Older men that decide to do so are usually contented with their decision. Most of the time, these older men find happiness and contentment by dating younger women. If you think about it, the idea of older people dating younger girls is not really something new.

In fact, this has already been happening for a long time. The only difference today is that this idea is more accepted than it was back in the day. Here are 3 reasons why the idea of Older Guys Dating Younger Girls is more accepted nowadays.

  • The limitations and barriers are not present anymore

Back then, seeing an old man dating a younger woman is very much of a big deal. This is because there used to be a lot of barriers around this idea. These barriers are still present today but they are not taken as such a big deal. Depending on the age gap that the older man and a younger woman have, seeing them date each other isn’t looked at as a taboo anymore. Times change and so do the people and the way they view things.

  • It is not that hard to introduce a younger or older partner to friends and family anymore

It used to be so hard to introduce a younger or older partner to your friends and family back then. This was because some of them are usually not so open to the idea. However, as time passes more and more people are beginning to embrace the idea of older people dating younger ones. Again, this will also depend on the age gap that the couple has. Depending on the gap, introducing them to your friends and family can sometimes get pretty awkward. However, most of the time your friends and family will just be glad that you found someone that you can spend your whole life with.

  • More young people now prefer dating older partners

More and more people are getting into older people dating because of several different reasons. One reason is by dating older people, they feel more secured and stable. The feeling of being unsure and anxious is not present when you are dating an older person. Young people also prefer dating older people because they feel that they can learn more if they do so. Knowing that these older people have more life experience than them, they date them in order to learn from these life experiences.

All in all, an old guy dating a young girl isn’t that bad. This is, of course, if their reasons and intentions for doing so aren’t evil to begin with.

5 Reasons Why Guys Like Girls

In this world, guys need girls and girls need guys. Girls and guys have different personalities and characters. These are the main reason why guys and girls need each other. In addition, guys are easily attracted to girls.32454ef862362f672e0f9630c630b9f2

If you want to know what the reasons for guys to like girls are, then read on.

Cute and attractive

Girls by nature are cute and adorable. Whenever guys are with girls, they will feel comfortable. Guys like to talk to girls that can make him feel better whenever he is stressed up. Furthermore, an attractive lady has attributes that can make a guy keep on wondering about her. In other words, guys are adventurous and like to explore something that is hard to get. This is one of the reasons why guys like girls.

Life companion

Guys need girls as their life companion. A guy would need a girl that knows how to take care of the family and also his needs. A girl who can take care about his needs would definitely help the guy and a caring attitude would make the guy feels more comfortable when he is with you. All of us need someone to take care of us when we are old.

Being Supportive

A supportive girl who likes to help out a guy’s problems can cheer up the guy’s mood and make the guy thinks positively about his problems. A guy would yearn for someone that can cheer him up and support his decision and not by causing arguments that would add salt to his problems. Find a solution and work it out together whenever there is a problem. Don’t put the blame on the guy for being irresponsible and grumble all the time.

Share Ups and Downs

Whenever you have good news or bad news, who would you turn to? Guys like to share good news and problems with the one they love first before the others. This shows that he wants to turn to you and ask for your opinions. Besides that, they would be even happier when they told you the good news and you share the joy together.

Makes Life More Meaningful

Have you ever had a feeling of emptiness while eating, shopping and watching movie alone? Looking at couples who share everything, wouldn’t that make you feel that you need someone to share your problems and make you life more meaningful? Guys like girls because they can make their life more meaningful. For example, a guy can always ask a girl out for a movie, sports or dinner.

These are some of the reasons why guys like girls. But this doesn’t mean that guys will simply fall in love with any girl. Girls would need to have a good personalities and qualities for guys to be attracted to them.

Top 5 Tips For Flirting With Younger Girls

Flirting is a fun way to signal your romantic interest in a member of the opposite sex. When it comes to younger girls, flirting is a little more tricky. Younger girls tend to be harder to read from a sexual/romantic standpoint. Therefore, tailoring your flirting skills to work on younger girls is of the utmost importance. Read on for details!

Flirt with Younger Girls

Don’t Try to Act Young

When flirting with younger girls, act your age! You are an older guy; one of your main advantages is increased maturity. Many younger girls are sexually aroused by and attracted to the maturity of an older guy. Flirt with your mind, your wisdom, and experience. Use your age to your advantage.

Don’t be a Show-Off

Flirting with younger girls should revolve around you putting your best SELF forward, not you trying to brag, boast, or show-off! Many older guys try to flirt with and impress younger girls by showing off their money, their cars, or their jewelry. Forget that immature stuff! Your substance as an older man should be your flirting currency.

Don’t Act Desperate

No matter how sexually attracted you are to a younger girl that you are flirting with, don’t act desperate. As an older guy, you are expected to come across as more patient, nonchalant, and steady than a younger, less-experienced guy. Flirt with a calm, cool steadiness. Don’t rush.

Use Your Eyes

Eye contact is a great way to flirt with a younger girl and let her know that you are interested in her sexually and romantically. Using good, but not excessive, eye contact while flirting with a younger girl signals to her that you have confidence, maturity, and drive, all of the things that make many older guys attractive to younger women.

Be Loose

Flirting with younger girls should be fun, laid back, and not taken too seriously. Whether a younger girl responds to your flirtations or not is not the end of the world. Don’t act like your life or reputation is on the line each time you flirt with a younger girl. Just have fun!

Young girls Love Dating Older Men

Growing up, I always befriended people older than me and dated guys older than me.

I have never been in a long term relationship with someone my own age, we have always broke up early due to maturity issues and not feeling satisfied.

When I was 18, I met a young looking man in a pub. We hit it off instantly, we had everything in common and there was a real connection. I would of guessed his age being 22 or maybe 23 at a push. He added me on Facebook, that’s when I found out he was 28. I felt confused, I felt like I was doing something wrong by liking someone 10 years my senior. My friends were disgusted by the 10 year age gap, but I couldn’t help myself. We broke up, funnily enough, he was too immature for me.

I then went on to date guys who were from ages 27-30. They all ended because I felt like they weren’t mature enough. They always seemed to go for younger girls, they were never married and they never seemed to want to settle down. One had kids but he really wasn’t mature enough for a relationship.

At New Year, me and my friend went to a pub. I seen this insanely attractive guy, he was tall, dark hair, facial hair, tattoos and just incredibly hot. I couldn’t keep my eyes off him. He then caught me looking. From then on, he kept looking at me and smiling. My knees were buckling! I was in disbelief and maybe thought he was smiling because I was being a total weirdo by staring at him.

His friend came over in an attempt to chat me up, he was drunk and falling all over me. The guy I had been staring at all night came over, he kissed me on the cheek and wished me a happy new year. We then got chatting. His friend kind of blended into the background after that. We had everything in common from film taste to music to geeky obsessions such as sharks. He then asked me my age, I guessed he was about 30. I told him I was 21 and he seemed to look uncomfortable. He then piped up, he was 36. I felt like couldn’t care less about his age. We really hit it off. We have exchanged numbers and have spoke every day since that night. He asked me out for a few drinks tomorrow, I am so nervous. My best friend supports me and doesn’t think the age gap is weird, but my other friends seemed to look down on me when I told them.

I’m terrified of liking him more because of the age gap. At the same time, why should it bother me? If anyone has any advice or tips, I would love to hear it!