Today, many people are talking about young girls who like older men, Here are some of their opinions.
I have come to find, in the world of online dating that many younger college aged girls enjoy the company of older men 35+. What is it that makes this acceptable? I would love to hear any opinions or experiences young woman have had. I spoke with a girlfriend who is 21 and dates a successful 40 year old man. She tells me there is no stress or lies and that the relationship has no drama. When I asked her about love she told me there was love but it was of a mentoring/nurturing kind. She said they had a solid friendship and when they made love it was passionate and overly erotic.
“Cheez68″ say: I can only speak my opinion on the subject. I am a 43 year old man who doesn’t look his age. I am successful at what I do and have dated an 18 year old when I was in my 30′s. We went out for two years before I had to relocate and she still had to finish University. But she also had a temper which kinda ruined things. But besides that, she sized me up with younger guys, and for her, dating the older guy I was, who had never been married, had kids or had drama, made me, in her eyes, just like being with a younger guy. However, I stacked up against them because I was more polite, treated her like a lady, made time for her versus haning with the boys all the time, we had a lot in common and so we had great communication, and last but not least, where intimacy was concerned, she never had an orgasm with any guy until I came along. She said I was never in a hurry, i made love to her versus satisfying myself, and made sure I was zoned in on her sexuality and needs. She was NEVER about money, never did I pamper her, or never did she ever ask me to buy her stuff. I helped her with her college work, also helped her to get a part-time job. So our relationship wasn’t the so-called “trophy wife/gold digger” kinda relationship…as a society, we have forgotten that centuries ago, May-December relationships were very common and not new….even the bible has a couple examples….
“jackson” say: it could be for many reasons that a person male or female chooses to be in an intimate sexual relationship with a person much older or younger than themselves. For me as a male I have always gone for very attractive women . When I was young 15 -21, older women came after me and I went. Women my age also sought me out and pursued me and I them. I am a sexual being and I feel that one should be with a women if there is that chemistry,that spark that attraction . Who says you should have lots in common and make all those rules that in my opinion limit the many awesome and not so experiences in life. I just go with the flow and see what happens. Get out there swing for the fences go for broke. Get your heart broken as many times as you can, break some in return. Just don’t do it on purpose. Love with all your heart but remember tomorrow is promised to no one.
Can anyone tell me what these little young 20 yr old girls want with these 40 some year old men???? I think it’s disgusting!!
“CrazyCOMen” say: I know they say age is only a number but damn when you are 40 dating someone who is 20…that’s just a little too much of a gap, if you ask me anyways! I know this guy who is like 42 and he is always getting younger women and they are actually somewhat decent looking…and I know it isn’t his looks..he definitely couldn’t afford much with his looks,maybe it’s something down south, who knows? I’ve dated a guy 9 yrs older than me but I don’t think I could be with someone 20 + years older! I say overall, it has to be money and drugs!! But that’s just my opinion!:)
“starr” say: I am with a man. He is much older, than myself. Never was he into drugs. Nor, is he rich. It is heart and affection. I love his kind ways, with kids and people. I love his mind (WAY BEFORE I EVER TOUCHED HIM) No! i was not, even looking for a relationship. I met him, through WORK. You sicko’s who use people, DO NOT MAKE IT, IN THIS WORLD. If they do..they are never satisfied. You do not earn it. You cannot feel satisfaction of your accomplishments. You may feel entertainment with money, for a while. If you got money, by bad. Bad, is what you will get.
“older man” say: I prefer women 50 to 60 years old. I am not as good in the bedroom as i was when i was a young man but i have alot to offer in a relationship that a young man can’t offer and i won’t be running from woman to woman like young men do.I don’t drink alcohol or do illegal drugs or party all night. I am not looking for love i am waiting for it to happen.